If you think your kids don’t know your fighting take a look at their faces – they hear every word you’re yelling at each other. All they know is that the two people they love most in the world appear to be at war with each other. STOP! Take your argument outside of the house and DO NOT bring the ramifications of that argument back into the home you share with your children. Do not use your children to “get at” the other parent or to “shame the other parent” into seeing the children more often or sending the child support check on time. These are your kids and they are not soldiers in your war!